Monday, May 18, 2026

Ashley Bonomo
Monday, May 18, 2026
In a world filled with anxiety, overthinking, and constant mental noise, the Yoga Sutras of Patanjali offer timeless wisdom on suffering, awareness, and the nature of the human mind. This reflective exploration weaves together yogic philosophy, mindfulness, and practical insight to examine how our identification with thoughts can shape our reality and how awareness can begin to soften that suffering. Through the teachings of the sutras, we are reminded that peace is not found in controlling every thought, but in changing our relationship to the mind itself.

Have you ever noticed how quickly the mind can create suffering?
For example, have you ever laid awake at night replaying something over and over in your mind?
A conversation.
A mistake.
A fear about the future.
The body is exhausted, but the mind keeps moving. One thought becomes another. A small worry becomes catastrophe. A passing emotion becomes identity. A single thought becomes a story. A story becomes fear.
Fear becomes anxiety, shame, self-doubt, or hopelessness.
And before we even realize it, we are no longer experiencing reality itself; we are experiencing the mind’s interpretation of it.
The human mind is powerful, but it is also deeply conditioned. It clings to old wounds, projects fear into the future, and constantly searches for certainty in an uncertain world.
Many of us spend our lives unconsciously trapped inside these mental patterns, believing every thought that enters the mind must be true.
For many people, this inner dialogue becomes so constant that they stop questioning it altogether.
The mind says:
“You’re not enough.”
“You’re falling behind.”
“You always ruin things.”
“Something bad is going to happen.”
And eventually, these thoughts stop feeling like thoughts. They begin to feel like truth.
Thousands of years ago, the Yoga Sutras of Patanjali spoke directly to this deeply human experience.

One of the most well-known sutras states:
“Yoga chitta vritti nirodhah.”
Which translates to "Yoga is the stopping of the fluctuations of the mind."
When many people hear this sutra, they mistakenly believe yoga is about stopping thoughts completely or achieving some perfect state of inner peace. But the teachings of the sutras are far more profound than that.
The fluctuations of the mind; the vrittis; are the endless waves of mental activity we all experience.
Worry. Fear. Rumination. Self-judgment. Attachment. Overthinking. Mental projections. Old memories replaying themselves through the lens of pain. The stories we create about ourselves, others, and the world around us.
The sutras teach that suffering often comes not from reality itself, but from the patterns of the mind and our identification with them.
This is where so much human suffering begins.
A thought appears:
“I’m not good enough.”
And rather than witnessing the thought, we become it.
Another thought arises:
“Something bad is going to happen.”
And the body responds as though the imagined future is already real.
The inner voice insists:
“I always fail.”
“I’ll never heal.”
“No one understands me.”
“I’m behind.”
“I’m broken.”
Over time, thoughts repeated often enough begin to feel like identity.
But the Yoga Sutras gently invite us to question this.
What if you are not every thought you think?
What if the mind is producing conditioned patterns, fears, memories, and protective mechanisms, but those things are not the deepest truth of who you are?
This is why the teachings of the Yoga Sutras remain so profoundly relevant today. Human suffering has always existed, even if the circumstances change. The mind has always searched for certainty. It has always attached itself to narratives. It has always struggled to distinguish between perception and truth.
But the sutras offer another possibility. They remind us that we are not the noise of the mind.


Another sutra says:
“Then the seer rests in their true nature.”
In Sanskrit:
“Tada drashtuh svarupe avasthanam.”
The sutras suggest that beneath the conditioned mind; beneath the fear, the striving, the overthinking, and the endless internal commentary; there is something steady within us.
Something aware.
Something observing.
Something untouched by the chaos passing through the mind.
Mindfulness helps us reconnect to that space.
Not by forcing the mind to become silent, but by teaching us how to witness it differently.
This is such an important distinction.
Mindfulness is not the denial of difficult emotions.
It is not pretending pain does not exist.
It is not spiritual perfection.
It is awareness.
It is the practice of noticing thoughts without immediately becoming consumed by them.
Noticing:
“This is fear.”
“This is anxiety.”
“This is an old wound speaking.”
“This is the mind trying to protect me.”
“This is a story I have repeated so many times that I forgot it may not actually be true.”
That moment of awareness can change everything.
Because when we stop reacting unconsciously to every movement of the mind, we create space.
And within that space, suffering begins to soften.
“Thoughts are experiences we have. They are not necessarily the truth of who we are.”

The Yoga Sutras also speak about the kleshas; the five root causes of human suffering.
In yogic philosophy, these kleshas are understood as mental and emotional distortions that cloud our perception, shape our behavior, and disconnect us from our true nature. They influence how we think, react, attach, fear, avoid, and move through the world; often without us even realizing it.
The foundational klesha is Avidya, often translated as ignorance or misconception.
Not ignorance in the ordinary sense, but a deep misunderstanding of reality itself.
It is the tendency to mistake the temporary for permanent, the external for the essential, and the conditioned mind for who we truly are.
From this misunderstanding, the other kleshas emerge.
2. Asmita is ego-identification — the tendency to over-identify with our roles, labels, achievements, wounds, or self-image. We begin believing that the stories we tell ourselves about who we are become our identity.
3. Raga is attachment — our craving for pleasure, comfort, control, or experiences we believe will complete us.
4. Dvesha is aversion — the instinct to resist pain, discomfort, uncertainty, or anything we do not want to feel.
5. Abhinivesha is the deep fear of loss, change, and ultimately death itself — the instinctive clinging to life and the fear of letting go.
These forces shape so much of human behavior.
We cling to what feels safe. We avoid discomfort. We build identities around wounds. We become attached to stories about who we are and who we believe we must be.
And often, without realizing it, we suffer not because life itself is unbearable, but because the mind continuously resists, fears, clings, compares, and projects.
The wisdom of the sutras invites us to observe this process with compassion rather than judgment.
Not to shame ourselves for being human.
But to become conscious enough to stop living entirely on autopilot.
A person practicing mindfulness may still experience grief, anxiety, sadness, anger, or uncertainty. The difference is that they slowly begin to develop a different relationship with those experiences.
Instead of immediately spiraling into every fearful thought, they pause.
They pause.
They breathe.
They begin witnessing the experience instead of immediately becoming consumed by it.
And over time, they begin to understand something deeply freeing:
That awareness creates space between who we are and what the mind is experiencing...
They beging to understand that suffering begins to soften the moment we stop unconsciously identifying with every movement of the mind.
Understanding these teachings intellectually is one thing.
Living them is another.
The wisdom of the Yoga Sutras was never meant to remain purely philosophical. These teachings were meant to be practiced and experienced within the reality of everyday human life.
The shift from suffering to awareness does not usually happen all at once.
It happens in small moments.
Moments where we begin interrupting unconscious patterns and returning to presence again and again.
The beautiful thing is that these practices do not require perfection. They simply require willingness.
A willingness to observe the mind with honesty and compassion.
Pause and Witness the Thought
The next time you notice yourself spiraling into fear, self-judgment, anxiety, or overthinking, pause for a moment before reacting.
Instead of immediately believing the thought, try simply observing it.
Notice:
“What is my mind saying right now?”
“What emotion is underneath this thought?”
“Is this thought objectively true, or is it a conditioned pattern?”
This small pause creates space between awareness and reaction. Over time, that space becomes incredibly powerful.


Return to the Breath
The breath has always been one of the most grounding tools within yogic practice because it brings us back into the present moment.
When the mind begins racing, gently bring awareness to your breath.
Not to force the mind to become silent, but to anchor yourself in something real and immediate.
Feel the inhale.
Feel the exhale.
Feel the body soften slightly with each breath.
Presence begins here.
Practice Non-Identification
One of the deepest teachings within the sutras is the understanding that we are not every thought that passes through the mind.
When difficult thoughts arise, experiment with changing the language internally.
Instead of:
“I am anxious.”
Try:
“I am experiencing anxiety.”
Instead of:
“Something is wrong with me.”
Try:
“I am having a painful experience.”
This subtle shift may seem small, but it changes the relationship we have with the mind. It reminds us that awareness exists beyond the thought itself.
Observe Mental Patterns with Compassion
Many of our thought patterns were created as forms of protection. Fear, hypervigilance, self-criticism, and overthinking often develop from past experiences, conditioning, or emotional wounds.
The goal is not to judge yourself for having these patterns.
The goal is to become conscious of them.
Awareness without compassion can become criticism. But awareness with compassion creates healing.
Create Moments of Stillness
Modern life constantly pulls attention outward. Noise. Stimulation. Comparison. Pressure. Information. Distraction.
The nervous system rarely has an opportunity to settle.
Even a few moments each day spent in stillness whether through meditation, mindful breathing, gentle yoga, or quiet reflection; can begin changing the way we relate to the mind.
Stillness allows us to hear ourselves more clearly beneath the noise.
Perhaps the greatest wisdom within the Yoga Sutras is not that they offer us a way to escape being human, but that they teach us how to be human with greater awareness.
The mind will still move. Thoughts will still arise.
Fear, grief, uncertainty, and self-doubt may still visit us at times.
But through awareness, mindfulness, and practice, we begin to experience these things differently.
We become less reactive.
Less identified with every passing thought. Less trapped inside unconscious patterns that once controlled us.
We begin creating space between who we are and what the mind is saying.
And within that space, something remarkable can happen.
We remember that peace is not the absence of thought.
“Peace is not the absence of thought. It is the ability to remain connected to ourselves even in the presence of mental noise.”
The Yoga Sutras remind us that healing is often not found in fighting the mind, but in understanding it with compassion.
Not in becoming perfect, but in becoming conscious.
Not in never experiencing suffering again, but in no longer allowing unconscious patterns to completely define our reality.
This is the practice.
Returning again and again to awareness. To presence. To witnessing. To compassion.
And slowly, over time, the mind begins to soften. The body begins to soften. Life begins to soften.
Not because the world outside of us has completely changed, but because our relationship to ourselves has.
And perhaps healing begins the moment we realize that we are the observer of the thought; not the thought itself.
If these teachings resonate with you and you feel called to explore the Yoga Sutras more deeply, I highly recommend reading the translation and commentary by Sri Swami Satchidananda.
His commentary brings the sutras to life in a way that feels accessible, compassionate, and deeply relevant to the challenges of modern life. It was one of the first interpretations of the Yoga Sutras

that truly helped me understand how these teachings apply not just to yoga practice, but to the human mind, suffering, awareness, and healing itself.
You can find The Yoga Sutras of Patanjali with commentary by Sri Swami Satchidananda on Amazon if you’d like to continue exploring these teachings more deeply.
(This is not an affiliate recommendation, it is simply a book that deeply impacted my life and one I genuinely feel grateful to share.)

Ashley is an Ashtanga-trained yoga teacher, writer, and lifelong student of yogic philosophy with experience studying and teaching multiple styles of yoga. She has completed her 500-hour yoga teacher training and is deeply passionate about mindfulness, self-inquiry, meditation, and the healing wisdom of the Yoga Sutras of Patanjali.
Through her writing, online yoga courses, journaling workbooks, and yoga and meditation YouTube content, Ashley explores the relationship between yoga philosophy, awareness, mental well-being, and the human experience.
Ashley hopes to make the wisdom of yoga philosophy feel accessible, relatable, and deeply relevant to modern life — offering teachings and reflections that invite others back to themselves with greater compassion, awareness, and presence.

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